*Special Edition* Sex & The Chocolate City – ENTRY#16!!!

We’re taking a break from the Relationship Killer Series to talk about the number 16. Frankly, I don’t know why I have to focus on 16, but I just do what I’m told so I don’t get yelled at by someone with the number 16 in their name that will remain nameless. *side eye* Anyways, here’s 16 tips that ladies should do TONIGHT! [...]

*Late Edition* Sex & The Chocolate City – Entry #15

Secret Relationship Killer: Money I hope you’ve all had a chance to read the introduction to this Secret Relationship Killers series and the first two installments- Number 5: Bad Breath & Body Odor and Number 4: Your Best Friend. Now we move on to Number 3: Money. I feel the word itself is all the [...]

Sex & The Chocolate City – Entry #14

The Secret Relationship Killer Series So I hope you’ve all had a chance to read the introduction to this Secret Relationship Killers series. We started with number 5: Bad Breath & Body Odor. Now we move on to number four: your best friend. We all have a best friend. That one solid person you can [...]

Sex & The Chocolate City – Entry #13

The Secret Relationship Killer Series 9 times out of 10 I’m my own worst enemy when it come to relationships. Between the insecurities, pressure, and unwillingness to see situations for what they truly are, I find myself in compromising positions that, inevitably, end. But, in my defense, some of the problems I’ve faced I’ve found [...]

Sex & The Chocolate City – Entry #12

The Dreaded Valentine’s Day Post “So what are your V-Day plans?” I absolutely cannot stand this question, for the answer is pretty self-evident when you’re single. Nothing. I have no plans. I won’t be so extreme as to say that I hate this holiday but it’s definitely not one of my favorites. Although I’m a [...]

Sex & The Chocolate City – Entry #11

Young Cougars I am twenty-seven and a half years old but on some days, I look like I’m no older than nineteen. (I’m not tooting my own horn here, this is the truth.) Looking this young, isn’t always a good thing when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. Some men will steer clear of [...]

Sex & The Chocolate City – Entry #10

A Serendipitous moment on the train. A couple of weeks ago I wrote a blog about this guy I kept seeing on the train playing drums. I hadn’t seen him in the last couple of weeks since I had been out of town for almost a month. Well it just so happened that while I [...]

Sex & The Chocolate City – Entry #9

The Worst Time To Be Single. Top 5 WORST times to be SINGLE I’m really single. To clarify, I’m not quote/unquote single, meaning I don’t have a defined boyfriend but do have a couple of boo’s on the side. No I’m straight up on the rocks single. There. Is. No. One. This is pretty rough [...]

Sex & The Chocolate City – Entry #8

I’ll be moving on… I needed a break from the cold weather and stress so I flew down to Miami for a little sun and relaxation. Ok, I’m lying, I flew down here to get away from EVERYONE and mourn the end of my relationship in peace. My ex and I broke up in October [...]

Sex & The Chocolate City – Entry #7

A DECADE OF MEN Happy New Year folks! I’m sure all of you were excited to ring in the new year with the promise of a new start, after throwing another ten years behind you (especially that ’09, sheesh). I also bet you had a chance to reflect on your love lives in the past [...]